Thursday, February 12, 2009

The Forgotten Child

My father died last night.  He had suffered with cancer of the liver and pancreas for about 15 months, more than likely caused by the abuse of alcohol for a number of years.  The news was delivered to me by my Mother -- it was emailed to her by her stepdaughter - who got a phone call from my half-sister.  Quite a round about way.

As I was trying to think about what I could send to my stepmother and how I should word a card in deepest sympathy to her and her children -- I didn't take time to allow myself to feel -- until my nephew sent me a text message to ask "me" if I was okay.  It touched my heart that he was considering how I might be feeling miles away from my family - losing my father to cancer - and being the forgotten child in any case.

Thank you sweet, sensitive nephew -- your daddy raised you right.  Thank you to all my loved ones who have consoled my heart today.  I love you all.

Dream Sweet

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